Regulars do not vanish suddenly. They come less often, then only to the big nights, then not at all — and it takes months. It is visible in your door data long before you notice it in the room. You only have to count the right thing.

The wrong number: headcount per night

The number everyone looks at tells you the least. A packed Saturday can be entirely first visits; a half-empty Tuesday can be your whole core crowd. Headcount measures the line-up, not loyalty.

The right number: visit frequency

It gets useful when you count, per guest, how often within what period. A workable split needs no data science:

GroupDefinitionWhat you do with it
First visitonce, in the last 3 monthsinvite for a second — that is the threshold
Returning2–4 visits in 6 monthsinvite deliberately to matching nights
Regular5+ visits in 6 monthstell them early, hold spots
Driftingwas a regular, absent 8+ weeksreach out while it still lands

The threshold that matters

The biggest lever sits at the second visit. Someone who came once decides again from scratch next time; someone who came twice has started a habit. If you only ever target one group deliberately, make it the first-timers of the last few weeks.

The early warning

Do not watch who is gone — watch whose interval is stretching. Someone who moved from every two weeks to every six is still reachable. Someone absent four months usually is not.

What it takes

None of this works without a stable guest identity across events, or you count the same person as three separate first-timers. The prerequisites are in managing guests across events, and the limits on keeping the data in GDPR for guest lists.

EventSync models these groups as dynamic segments — they update on every check-in without anyone maintaining a list.

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